When someone dies, placing an obituary notice is often one of the first administrative tasks families handle alongside funeral arrangements. In Oklahoma City, this involves choosing between newspapers, online platforms, and funeral home services, each with different reaches, costs, and audience expectations. This guide covers the practical options available in the city and what distinguishes them.
The Oklahoma City Journal Record and The Oklahoman remain the two major print outlets where families traditionally publish obituaries. The Oklahoman, the larger of the two, reaches readers across central Oklahoma and charges based on word count and any photographs included. A basic obituary typically runs between $150 and $400 depending on length; weekend editions cost more. The Oklahoman also publishes obituaries online simultaneously with print, extending visibility beyond subscribers.
The Oklahoma City Journal Record, a smaller publication, offers lower placement costs but reaches a narrower audience, roughly half the circulation of The Oklahoman. It appeals most to families with deep roots in the city who want local coverage without the higher cost. Both papers require obituary submission through their obituaries department, and both accept submissions directly from families or through funeral homes.
Regional papers serving specific Oklahoma City neighborhoods like those in northwest OKC or southeast OKC have largely consolidated or ceased publication over the past decade, so geographic targeting within the city through traditional print is now limited to these two main outlets.
Most families do not submit obituaries directly to newspapers; they rely on their chosen funeral home to handle placement. This is a significant part of what funeral homes offer beyond their core services. Funeral homes maintain relationships with The Oklahoman and The Journal Record and can negotiate volume rates, though these savings are rarely passed directly to families. The funeral home's role includes drafting the obituary from information you provide, selecting which publications to use, and ensuring timely submission before the newspaper's deadline (typically 2 p.m. for next-day publication in The Oklahoman).
When comparing funeral homes in Oklahoma City, confirm what their obituary placement fees cover. Some include placement in one newspaper; others bundle multiple placements. Ask whether the funeral home charges an additional markup beyond the newspaper's direct cost or includes this service as part of their package. This varies significantly between establishments.
Legacy.com, a national obituary site owned by the same company that operates The Oklahoman, has become the default digital destination for many Oklahoma City families. Posting an obituary on Legacy.com costs between $150 and $300 depending on features like photo galleries, video tributes, and guest books. The advantage is permanence: these pages remain online indefinitely and often rank highly in Google searches for the deceased's name. Many families now treat the Legacy.com page as their primary obituary platform, with the newspaper notice becoming secondary.
Funeral homes typically offer Legacy.com posting as an add-on service rather than including it automatically. Some forward all information directly to Legacy.com for you; others charge $25 to $75 to handle the submission. Doing it yourself costs less but requires learning their platform.
Facebook memorial pages serve a different function but increasingly function as informal obituaries in Oklahoma City, especially for younger deceased or those with significant social media presence during their lifetime. These are free but lack the formality and searchability of newspaper or Legacy.com placements.
Newspaper deadlines create real constraints. The Oklahoman requires obituary submission by 2 p.m. to appear the next day; submissions after that publish two days later. If death occurs on a Friday evening, placement in Sunday's paper (which carries the week's largest obituary section) requires submission by Saturday at 2 p.m., a tight window if you are making funeral arrangements simultaneously. Weekend funeral homes have staff trained for after-hours submission specifically for this reason.
Legacy.com processes submissions within 24 hours but does not have the same deadline pressure. If you are posting online only, timing is more flexible.
Choose The Oklahoman if you want the widest local reach and expect attendees to search the newspaper. Choose The Oklahoma City Journal Record if cost matters more than circulation and you have strong neighborhood connections the publication serves. Use Legacy.com for permanence and search engine visibility, especially if attendees live outside Oklahoma City. Use funeral home coordination if you want guidance and want to avoid learning multiple submission systems yourself; submit directly if you want to avoid markup fees and have time to handle it.
Most Oklahoma City families use a combination: The Oklahoman print placement plus Legacy.com, coordinated through their funeral home. This balances immediate local visibility with lasting online presence. The total cost runs $300 to $700 depending on how much content you include.
The practical takeaway is to confirm your funeral home's obituary fees and what is included before signing a service contract, and to note newspaper deadlines when planning the funeral date if you have a preference for which day the obituary appears in print.
